A little R & R talk: How to keep the romance hot

I just wanted to take the time to wish everyone a Happy New Year and I hope you all had the best one yet! Today’s topic of discussion is R & R (Romance and relationships). My version of ‘love and dating’ advice for the ladies…and men, who are in a committed relationship and just want some advice on how to keep it going from 0-100 real quick!  Listen, I am not an expert on love and what relationships are supposed to be like. I am just here to give you some really good advice.

The idea is to make your partner feel comfortable and confident in who they are, not trying to belittle them or feel insecure. insecurity is the # 1 problem in many relationships.  Let’s be honest, i’m sure you all have felt some ounce of insecurity throughout your past relationships and maybe even relationships that you are in now. We all have experienced that. It’s a part of who you are, you want to make sure you are feeling loved and cared for by your significant other. And that insecurity can build a wall between you and them. So, yeah that’s definitely a HUGE problem!

Open up to your partner…fully and willingly. Tell them exactly what you are feeling and WHY. That will help to bring you even closer to them. If you are in a relationship you have to be open and honest, telling them your deepest and darkest secrets or insecurities. And trust me honesty is a huge turn-on for guys, just so you know! So just be honest with them and let them know what is bothering you and you’ll work together to fight those insecurities.

But. *dun dun dun*…texting or being on your phone when your out with your spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend is a definite no-no. Especially if you’re on a *dinner date*….because, honey that’s not cool and it will piss them off to no end. STAY OFF THE DAMN PHONE AND STOP TAKING STUPID SELFIES AND BE WITH YOUR WOMAN/MAN! They took you out to spend time with you and to get away from all the social media, drama, etc. Don’t be rude and also pay attention when your partner is talking as well. Eye contact is VERY important. I mean, you don’t have to be creepy and stare at them 24/7 but just make eye contact when they are talking to you (meaning look up at them). Make them feel wanted and needed.  I can tell you from experience. My boyfriend loves looking at me while i’m talking to him and I do as well because it makes both us feel special in that moment.

quote, art, and love image

*that is love*

I call it “the look” because every time one of us looks at the other, it feels like we are falling in love all over again. It’s quite romantic, I must say!

Sex is also a HUGE part of being in a relationship. A relationship involves a lot of intimacy between you and your partner…*if you know what I mean lol* *wink wink*. but in all seriousness, sex is beautiful thing, most importantly it’s natural. The idea that your making love with the person you want to spend your life with is extremely romantic. You want to create that PASSION and be able to communicate it by being intimate together as one. One thing that I would say is really important during love-making is the power of TOUCH. the sensual touching allows for your partner to give you that pleasure or make you feel beautiful ladies! If he’s touching you on your back or even just a slight touch on your leg, that’s how he is expressing his love for you. There is something about a man’s touch that drives women crazy and that is the key to making your love-making even more intense, hot and passionate.

There’s nothing like two people together expressing their love for one another, it’s that deep love that keeps a couple together. If you love one another, show it, say it, feel it, imagine it, do it.

Give one another the LOVE THAT THEY DESERVE.

Well, fashionistas that’s all for today! Thank you so much for reading this and I hope you couples out there listen to my advice. PLEASE COMMENT below and tell me all your juicy relationship/past relationship details or you could just ask some questions too!

Enjoy lovers. 💗

Savannah montano & Jessey Stevens *relationship goals*

DIY couple ideas *take note lovers!* #savandjessey

iconic couple: Johnny Depp & Model Kate Moss

Cameron Diaz & Matt Dillon *they broke up a long time ago tho*

Zac Efron and Vanessa Hudgens. they were co-stars turned lovers. they broke up and now i’m sad rn. i loved them they were the most lovable couple ever. *that look tho*

Vanessa and Austin Butler. #socute #kisses

Nina Dobrev and Austin Stowell #CutestCoupleInHollywoodRightNow

The famous hand-holding instagram couple Natalia Zakharova and Murad Osmann



Aww super cute! love this scene from ‘Sweet Home Alabama’


SAV AND JESSEY #WaterfallLove

Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie

Johnny Depp & Winona Ryder #goals

Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears #iconic

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith

Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds

Chrissy Teigen & John Legend

Iconic scene from ‘ the Notebook’ #foreverlove

so true. #love

coordinated couples/prom

Sweet moment from the movie ‘tuck everlasting’

nothing like a women confessing how much she misses her man…especially when it’s Natalie freaking Portman!

bohemian love

’10 things i hate about you’ couple. #iconic

this scene tho. *crying emoji*

intense passion = Tour and Tris from divergent, this kiss was magnetic, don’t you think ladies?

John and Savannah in ‘Dear John’. Epic love, epic movie

tear-jerker = The Vow

Allie and Noah from ‘The Notebook’ #IconicScene

Rose and jack = ever-lasting love



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