I’m kind of obsessed with Selena Gomez’s sense of style this week. I mean, did you see the outfit she wore to last night’s 94.9’s FM’s Jingle Ball?! Very ‘Goth Chic’ I must say. And the MATTE dark red lipstick adds a bit of grunge to her look. I love that Selena has been vamping it up on the red carpet lately. She has transformed from a shy, modest girl to a more mature young woman. She knows what she wants in life and strives for success and most importantly, to keep her fans happy.
I think the reason why I can relate to her so much is because, I have dealt with criticism from others about the way I look, what I wear, or how much I weigh on a daily basis, so Selena has inspired me to go out there and conquer those issues with pride and confidence. To be totally honest, I really don’t understand why people are so cruel, especially young girls.
My experience was so painful that I did not step outside of my house for many weeks, or months even. I was attacked by these nasty girls who thought they were better than me, they made me feel like I was weak and not worthy of anything. My friends who stabbed me behind the back and betrayed my trust had ditched me because I dressed and looked like a nerd, a loser. But I said, you know what? “I’m beautiful and I can dress how I want, be who I want and i’m not going to stand down to these wannabe bitches!”
It’s such bullshit. Just because you gain a few pounds does not make you fat or overweight. Curvy women are so f**king beautiful, SELENA YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, NEVER CHANGE. Everyone expects you to dress a certain way or to look how they want you to look. I’m sorry, but that is not real life. That is what I call ‘being fake AF’.
So my advice for Selena and many young women struggling to fit in with society is to just, ignore the negativity, ignore EVERY SINGLE RULE. ignore the hate and stay positive. Dress the way you want, be who you want, don’t ever change for anyone.
Fashion is meant to be something extraordinary and unique. Not to criticize girls and belittle them.
Thank you Selena for giving me the confidence to be who I want to be.
*photos of Selena’s bad-ass style are below, enjoy*
Showing some leg. #YouGoGirl
Vintage X classic red coat
London Vibes #AllAmerican #Matching
Victoria’s Secret moment #Angel #HerSmileIsEVERYTHING
Airport Chic #VintageSunglasses
Red sparkles. #fire #redhot #2015AMAs
Little White Dress aka ‘LWD’ #whitedressvibes
NYC VIBES X LITTLE BLACK DRESS
HIGH SLITS ARE ALL THE RAGE BABY
CLASSIC BLACK JUMPSUIT X BLACK HEELS
DARLING IN DENIM
my fave fashion photo from refinery29’s issue! #refinery29 #selenagomez #bluedress
twisted braid X high wasted skirt
School girl chic
BLACK X WHITE
I LEGIT THOUGHT THEY WERE PAJAMAS FOR A SEC, but they weren’t lol! #BlueAndRed
QUEEN. NO WORDS. I’m speechless. She looks like heaven, literally.
Vest it up.
Long sexy black dress vibes. aka #LSBD
omg selena stop you look so good. #goldandblue
Demure. Classy. Stylish. Chic. Sophisticated. Too many words to say here.
My favorite. Dark Green.
I WANT THOSE LEOPARD HEELS.
DEAD. gone. OKAY THIS OUTFIT IS TOO HOT FOR MY EYES. not literally tho, i’m okay. my eyes are fine. k?
BLACK X LEATHER
FURRY HEELS ARE LIFE.
KIM K’S TWIN.
SWEATER WEATHER #Nude
one-sleeved black dress
I actually love this dress, sleek and sassy. And her hair is GOALS.
Bringing sexy back. #VMAVibes
She performed with Taylor Swift aka her BFF on her tour in this fierce outfit!
I swear she is Kim K’s twin here. She wore the same kind of leotard/tank top but in pink and with ripped jeans as well. #LoveIt #Inspirationfromfashionicons
I have the exact same blouse 🙂 #StyleInspiration
Twirl in the wind.
WHITE LONG DRESS aka WLD and black heels
Leather meet black booties.
All leather look
beautiful in navy blue
Summer vibes #ShortShorts #BrownBooties
content. happy. confident.
Black Pants-suit vibes